Four distinct types of people can be observed when relating to the way yay they see themselves. They are basically the following types: the fragile type, the swayed type, the sensitive type, and the certain type.
The fragile type reacted to others judgement as if a life catastrophee takes place each time they are judged. Most often they are not visibly judged but create an idea of their possible judging them selves. The fragile type usually assumes that they are being judged in the negative. Looks, comments, or being ignored can cause them to have a life catastrophe. They often do not have a clear Idea of who they are or often a misconstrued idea seeing themselves negatively.
The swayed type basically reacts to others judgement by conforming to it. They will take comments or sometimes basic conversation as judgement and attempt to "correct" there behavior. Individuals who are. The swayed type often do not have their own identity but change to meet the expectations of others.
The sensitive type usually need to be specifically judged. Either directly or indirectly (typically through gossip). They are easily offended and do not take criticism well; they call it judging. They think they know who they are as a person, however, who they are often is a lawyers defense speech. They will often know who they are not more than who they are.
The certain type understands that people will judge them. They understand whose judgement to listen to; where to find constructive criticism. They often know who they are and are open to become a more complete person in relation to being judged.
Now the Christian should be the type that is not swayed. For the most part they have a written book that tells them who they are as they are new creations with the holy spirit of god living inside of them.
The childern's pastor at the church said , " the devil lies to you in your brains."
(i did proof read this, but didn't fix anything)
